OK boys so you want a 4th level orgasm as well eh! Gosh why would’nt you….why wouldn’t you want multiples too…mind blowing, heart pumping, face contorting, ball tightening hit the ceiling kind of orgasms…several times a night! Well you can! Except for the “hit the celiling part as Will explain in a minute : ) And believe me your woman will love you for it!!!
In fact so far my posts have been very “woman centric” but last night my psyche haunted me and woke me up to remind me that none of my level four or level five orgasms would even be possible without a partner that could last long enough to make them happen.
Now I am sure that many of my friends already have this information so if you do get to work on the 5th Level! You can read about those here. I do know however from experience that many guys do not about this so I will take the time to explain the process of “Locking the Gate of the Immortals” that gets you to Level 4 for those who might not yet know and want to give it a try!
But lets recap for a minute shall we! What the hell is a Level 4 Orgasm again ?
When two people come together to make love, it is through orgasm that they can feel an even deeper merging and oneness of being. They are in an expanded state of loving in which there are no boundaries.
This is the magical state in which the two life force energies coming together truly create a new energy – Quodoushka Energy or Orende which can be used for healing, for manifesting desires into physical reality , for expanding the lairen or just for pleasure.
You can read about all the levels here, but the point it is pretty f’in amazing but not something that is gonna happen in 90 seconds, or even 3 minutes, or even 15 minutes for that matter! These kind of situations take time.
Tantra and Taoism tell us that men are like fire and women are like water. You have heard this saying I am sure. “That men heat up quickly but also extinguish quickly, whereas women are slow to the boil, but once hot, can simmer for hours”. What this means among other things is that in order for women to reach Level 4 or 5 it is going to take some time, and if you want to join her on that level, then you are going to have to go the distance.
Now I am not saying a wham bam thank you mam screaming quickie is not exactly what is wanted on some occasions, but to experience the transcendental qualities of 4/5 you are going to need to sustain! The great news is that when you do learn how we then have a recipe for shared, multiple level four and level five orgasms that can go on for hours….just imagine how much Magick you could do then : ) !!!!!
Learning to do this is really THE FUNDAMENTAL ASPECT necessary to getting to the next level, and it is something that is very anti intuitive for most guys, and really not that widely known. I would hazard a guess the average dude at the pub has no idea about “Locking the Gate of The Immortals” and would think it utterly absurd if it were explained to him.
The “absurd part” being of course that you can separate your orgasm from your ejaculation and in so doing retain your “vital energy”, retain your hard on, experience multiple orgasms, and literally last for hours! When you separate the ejaculation from orgasm it is literally like having your cake and eating it too! But despite that, because the 2 events have been tangled together since you very first “event”, it is almost impossible to consider them otherwise.
In truth we did not even know about it until we bought a book by Mantak Chia Taoist Secrets of Love: Cultivating Male Sexual Energy. It is an amazing book and I highly suggest to all who are interested. In fact in addition to becoming “goddish” in the bedroom there are so many more benefits that a man attains by undertaking the practice of “Locking the Gate” and cultivating his energy. You see when a man ejaculates his body believes it to be an opportunity to perpetuate DNA and so the body does everything it can do give that DNA the very best shot of doing so, and it uses masses of “life force” to do it. So then the theory goes that is you do not ejaculate you do not depelete the life force and you become an energetic god. My hubby will tell you that this is a very real phenomenon, and I will tell you that sparks literally fly between us when he has been cultivating!
Think about it…why do coaches tell men not have sex before a Big game or fight night….hmmmm
Basically, the “Locking the Gate is an exercise that imparts ejaculation control. It is part energetic and part mechanical. Instead of trying to remember all the steps myself I googled it and found a great reference online.
Here is an excerpt:
“The ancient adepts designed clever methods for gaining control over their sexual energy when they felt they were on the verge of ejaculating during intercourse. The most important and effective of these methods, combined with breath control, is ‘Locking Up’ of the entire sacral region with strong contractions of the anal sphincter muscle, buttocks and urogenital diaphragm. This flexing of the ‘love-muscles’ is the secret penile lock that enables a man to control his ejaculation reflex and ultimately master his own orgasm energy. Thus he can make love indefinitely – with full orgasmic arousal and sensitivity. This method is outlined in the texts of the Classic Pillow Book – ‘ Mysterious Master of the Cave’ :
” When a man feels on the verge of ejaculation, he should always restrain himself and be sure to bring the woman to orgasm. He should draw the Jade Stem (penis) out shallowly and play it between the Lute Strings -(frenulum of clitoris) and Wheat Buds (Labia minor)…… He should concentrate his mind, press his tongue against the roof of his mouth, arch his spine and stretch out his neck, clench his fists and feet as if clawing the floor. At the same time, he should open his nostrils wide, close his mouth and swallow a deep breath. Clenching his jaw and love muscles with nine rapid contractions. Directing his eyes to look up at the Pai-Hui (Pineal gland – crown of the head), he can guide the rising Ching Chi (aroused orgasm energy) away from the genitals into the body. If he does this in time, he will not ejaculate. Instead, the semen will return and the orgasm energy will ascend naturally, by itself. In this manner, a man may completely regulate his ejaculation “. – The Taoist physician Lee Tung Hsuan.
In the section of Sun Ssu-Mo’s ‘Precious Recipes’, entitled -‘Healthy Sex Life’, he also mentions the Locking Method. He gives detailed instructions such as opening the eyes wide and clenching the teeth, and other methods for drawing the vital energy away from the sexual organs and upwards into the body. In addition to constricting the anal sphincter and flexing the buttocks and urogenital muscles, he throws light upon the method of pressing a vital point – the perineum, which is located mid-way between the anus and the scrotum. Pressure on the perineum, called in Taoist texts ‘Confluence of Yin’, will also suppress ejaculation. But it is usually adopted by beginners who have not yet gained perfect control over their Love-muscles. Until you master the Locking Method, you may also use pressure at the ‘Confluence of Yin’ (perineum). As the Classic of Immortality states :
” Take the index and middle fingers of the left hand and press them at the point mid—way between the anus and scrotum. If this is done with sufficient pressure and in time, and combined with deep slow breathing, with muscular contractions and gnashing of the teeth, then the semen will not be lost “.
Our old friend, Wu Hsien, considered ‘Locking the Gate’ to be the most effective of all methods for controlling ejaculation :
” If you tighten the lower part of your bowels (pelvic floor muscles -Love-muscles), to shut off the flow of energy there, semen will stop moving, naturally”.
This method, sometimes referred to as ‘Locking the Gate of the Immortals’ is a practical skill that can be easily mastered. It is the key to ejaculation control.”
So then how does one do it ?
Here are the steps as explained by WHALE
Point 1 : Stop Thrusting, Squeeze Tightly and Retreat.
When you first sense ejaculation approaching, no matter how ‘early’, stop thrusting and tightly ‘close’ (squeeze) the urogenital and pelvic floor muscles including the anal muscles, as if holding them when looking for a lavatory. At the same time retreat so that only about one inch or more of your penis remains inside the vagina.
Point 2 : Flex the Love Muscles with Nine Rapid Contractions.
Immediately you sense the urge to ejaculate and have withdrawn your penis to shallow penetration, flex fll the key Love Muscles in point 1 with nine rapid contractions.
Point 3 : Take a Deep Breath and Hold During The Nine Contractions.
As you withdraw your penis to carry out the Locking Method, draw in a deep breath and send it down to the lower abdomen as if you have swallowed it. Hold the breath pressure in the lower abdomen while you perform nine hard clenchings of the pelvic floor muscles.
Point 4 : Clench Buttock Muscles
Total lower body lock is greatly aided by the power grip of the buttocks. Clenching these large muscles assists the overall locking of the pelvic ‘door’. The nine rapid hard flexings of the Love Muscles includes clenching the buttocks.
Point 5 : Arch Your Spine Concavely and ‘Grip’ the Orgasm Energy at the Root of the Penis.
As you withdraw your penis to shallow penetration to perform the nine contractions, swivel the hips forward, bending the vertebrae at the base of the spine towards your partner. Use will-power and grip the orgasm energy at the root of the penis, as if drawing it into the tip of the spine, (coccyx).
Point 6 : Clench Teeth, Press Tongue to Roof of Mouth and Straighten Neck.
At the same time, flare the nostrils and imagine (ideate – think) the orgasm energy up the spine to the neck and up to the top of the head. Orgasm energy in this sense, means highly aroused sexual energy, not climax – ejaculation. Swivel the head slightly forward, bringing the chin toward the throat by lightly clenching the teeth and pressing the tongue against the upper palate.
Point 7 : Clench the Fists and Look Upward with the Eyes.
Include the clenching of the fists during the nine rapid contractions of the entire pelvic region. Roll the eyes upwards, as if looking back into the brain. Imagine that you are sending the message to ejaculate from the root of the penis back to the brain. This helps to draw off some of the orgasmic pressure that would otherwise trigger the ejaculation reflex.
THIS COMPLETES THE TOTAL BODY LOCK.
Point 8 : Repeat the Locking Method Until the Urge to Ejaculate Passes.
If after one set of nine contractions of the Locking Method, you still feel vulnerable to ejaculate, take another deep breath and repeat the nine contractions of the Total Body Lock. Do as many sets of nine contractions as are necessary to bring your ejaculation reflex under control.
Successfully controlling the nerve impulses to ejaculate and driving the orgasm energy back into the body, is the first half of Ejaculation Control – the hard half. The soft half that completes the technique is also indispensable to success in learning how to master your own orgasm energy. Rather like the soft and hard principles expressed in the Tai Chi diagram. Incidentally, people often find that the hard aspect of the Locking Method is relatively easy, yet they fail in the soft aspect, which is described in the following points :
Point 9 : Carefully Release the Breath and Relax.
Exhale and release the Total Body Lock. Relax the shoulders, chest and abdomen, but by all means, keep the root of the penis, the perineum and the anal muscles ‘sensitively’ flexed until you ‘feel’ sure that you are safe. Then Relax Completely. Breathe long and deeply.
Point 10 : Exchange Loving Affection.
Whatever pleasing position you are in while you are calming down your orgasm energy, there are myriads of ways to share and express tender love. Don’t be afraid to do nothing during these rest periods. Tactile loving is one aspect of this Art that is probably impossible to teach!
Point 11 : Resume Thrusting.
When you feel inspired, or when your partner ‘senses’ you are ready, resume mutually pleasurable thrusting. Choosing the appropriate style of love strokes is a matter of ‘good taste’. It goes without saying that there is a great difference between sensual pumping and senseless bashing! Vigorous, gentle, deep, shallow, quick, slow and rhythmically pleasing thrusts are all at your disposal. The inspired lover varies his thrusts like a great musician who has instinctive feel for his instrument of expression. I am not a gifted literary genius, therefore, I cannot find words to describe this seductive skill. However, the indescribable nature of inspired thrusting is also due to it’s infinite forms of expression. Also, let us not forget that thrusting is a two-way affair.
Point 12 : Pay Attention to Your Breathing.
While thrusting, try to keep your breathing under mental control. Flare your nostrils and lightly clench your teeth at particularly erotic moments, (Partial Locking), and breathe the pleasure of sex down into your belly. This actually helps to bring the orgasm energy under your mental control. Don’t hold your breath during a vigorous bout of thrusting. Adopt a kind of ‘Warrior’ concentration and weald your Love Weapon with calm and noble force. Soon you will realize that the poetic term ‘Gladiator of the Bedroom’, is not mere sensationalist romantic hype. Relaxed breathing while thrusting is essential for this ‘state of mind’.
Point 13 : Stop Thrusting and Lock.
When you feel the urge to ejaculate return, repeat the entire process again. Do how ever many sets of nine contractions that are necessary to control the urge to ejaculate, and then relax. Breathe deeply to calm down your heart rate and share a loving moment of affection for a minute or two. Then continue thrusting or perhaps, even change positions.
Point 14 : Change Love-making Positions with Loving Care.
It would be immature and clumsy to rashly change love positions too early. A ‘Gladiator of the Bedroom’, varies his love positions to artistically express different forms of the joy of sexual love. However, he does not neurotically ‘experiment’ with different love-making positions just as an excuse or substitute for lack of staying power. The Gentleman of the Bedroom also varies the position of love-making out of courtesy and care for the woman’s comfort. He should affectionately sense or ask when she is in need of a rest from a certain position, and lovingly manoeuvre her into another pleasing love position.
Timely communication – sexual requests, ie. telling her what you would like, asking her what she wants, and vice versa; becomes a practical possibility when, as a result of controlling ejaculation, penetrative sex lasts longer than two and a half minutes. With one or two hours at your disposal, ‘communication’ can have some meaning -at last!
Point 15 : Do It Again and Again Until She Orgasm.
If you think you can bring a woman to orgasm in five or ten minutes, then you have seriously underestimated how long a woman loves to be made love to, until she reaches climax. And thank goodness too! Surely the longer it lasts, the more sexual enjoyment there is for each other. Don’t be surprised therefore, if as a beginner, you may have to perform the Locking Method twenty or thirty times in a love session that could last for two hours! Don’t worry, provided your penis is not ridiculously small, she will love it. And is this not the true and lasting pleasure of sex ?
Point 16 : Do Not Ejaculate Before Female Orgasm.
Of course, everyone is entitled to make mistakes. Sometimes you may take it too close to the edge and lose control, and sometimes you are taken by surprise. This is all part of the learning process, provided you analyze what went wrong. But, don’t be tempted to race her to the finishing line just because she’s moaning and groaning in ecstasy. She will beat you down into the pit of premature ejaculation every time! A woman can moan and groan with pleasure for twenty to forty minutes or more, before she actually climaxes. So don’t be overwhelmed by her erotic responses to your lengthy thrusting sorties. Remember, any ejaculation before female orgasm is premature ejaculation – even after twenty to forty minutes! Safeguarding your sperm rewards you with enhanced potency, reliable erectile power and deeply fulfilling, long lasting penetrative sex. Not only can a woman finally let go and enjoy her sexual nature to the full, the man also gains intense orgasmic satisfaction. Ejaculation control does not mean stopping orgasm.
I personally cannot recommend this practice enough. ( he he he he) It revolutionizes ones sex life. It allows men to experience multiple orgasm in ways they have never done before and a couple can reach transcendental levels of union where anything is possible. WOMEN WILL LOVE & WORSHIP YOU! Isn’t that reason enough : )
I will just warn you…It is not easy! It does take time and it helps if the woman cooperates : )
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